Let's see, a tornado came and hit your house and spun it around and broke all the windows and cracked the walls. And while this was going on all you wanted was for it to stop. And now it's over and gone, and it's quiet and the sky is blue. Why aren't you happy? Could it be because your house is destroyed? Yes. Your marriage is like your house and it is in shambles. If you want it, you will have to rebuild it. From the foundation up. It's not an easy fix. All the supports are crumbling. You need to go to the Retrouvaille website. They can teach you how to rebuild the marriage, starting with a strong foundation and building on the supports of love, commitment, trust and forgiveness. http://www.helpourmarriage.org.