Nutty, Thanks for writing me back. I guess I can understand why you filed, I am glad that you were able to get to a place where you know what you want and need and are seeking it. It gives me inspiration and hope, that my life will go on and be great even if my H does file.
No, I dont have a key to his house. And I know that it seems wierd that I allowed him to have one to mine even though he left me. But I guess it was the one way that I could show him unconditional love while he is going through his crisis. It is also, the only connection we have left. As I expained before, we havent seen each other in over two months. The dog was his pride and joy and I ended up getting her when we got legally seperated and I know that that killed my H inside. He is obeying my boundaries now and has left a note each time this last week since I spoke up.
Very interesting news - my H text me this sunday night again to see if I would be willing to chat with him. I said o.k. and he said he would text me this week sometime when I get out of work so we can try to get together. I feel like it is a good thing. He is being rather kind this last week and really seems to want to talk with me. I hope that it is good news and not some more MLC bullcrap. I dont even know what to say to him, I have no idea what he wants to say to me. But I know he has been dying to talk to me for a while now but just couldnt muster up enough courage. I know not to expect anything. But his texts seem very nice.
I will keep you all informed. This shall be very interesting. TIPPER