Don't apologize for the "sexual" parts of your post, it most definately is an important component of any marital relationship. Gads, you should see what I've disclosed on some of my previous threads!
Yes, I think that it's important to work toward a positive approach to our Ses, but so is being honest about how we feel and what we think during our long and trying journey. Sometimes we have to step through manure on our way to the garden.
