Just dropped kids off at W's house, I asked her did she have a good weekend? She said it was OK, said she didn't get to lay out like she wanted to because her mother wanted to do things on Saturday at the beach. I guess they went shopping, who knows, I didn't ask.

I got W caught up on all of the happenings, I was in a great mood, told her S7 had batting practice tomorrow night and I would not be able to make it, she asked why? I told her I had a cookout in the neighborhood to go to. Also told her that Mother's Day weekend I was suppose to have the kids and I felt they needed to be with her on Sunday but I would keep them Friday night and we were invited to go to a cookout on Saturday night so I would get them to her late on Saturday. The family that asked me to bring the boys are some that we use to hang out with alot when our boys raced motocross together a couple of years ago. We did a lot of camping with them at the tracks and they were very good friends. We even hooked up with them last year on vacation at the beach.

W was in a good mood, I was in a great mood also. I hope I didn't slide any by telling her these things but I felt I needed to let her know that I am living life and not sitting on the sidelines waiting for anything to happen.

All in all a pretty good day and weekend. I remain to feel good about things and I keep my mental state by this one statement. "It is what it is." I preach this with my managers that I am over when things are out of their control, this is out of my control so I thought it fit the bill pretty well.


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