You have changed and become a better person. By yourself or with whoever you will be with, you will be more open and communicative and (whatever his blame to you is) to the person you will be with.
I became so very aware of the things I needed to change. I think this is what it really comes down to.. changing those things and becoming a better/happier person moving into the future - whatever that looks like.. [/quote]
Yes, yes!!!! That is all so true--I believe all of us will be happier in the future than we were in the past b/c we are better/happier people and our WAS can decide whether they want to join us or not but either way we will be happier. Karen