Don't let your H give you any guilt trips! I was going through the guilt/blame and I realized I have done everything my H wanted me to do (work on my depression, make more friends, better housecleaning, etc.) and extra stuff he didn't even ask for, and he is still with the OW and out of the house--
Karen.. I, too, have made every change he wanted plus some.. and, here I still am... in the middle of the big D..
Originally Posted By: ourcrisis
You have changed and become a better person. By yourself or with whoever you will be with, you will be more open and communicative and (whatever his blame to you is) to the person you will be with.
I became so very aware of the things I needed to change. I think this is what it really comes down to.. changing those things and becoming a better/happier person moving into the future - whatever that looks like..
