Today is your anniversary?? That must be rough in this limbo land. At least ours arrived after we'd recommitted to working on our M.
You can bet your H hasn't forgotten, he probably just didn't know WHAT to do....he's still confused, perhaps didn't want to raise "false hopes"? Still, I can totally relate to your desire for a full recommittment from him on this special day. Sigh.....if only....
Be patient, my H Didn't buy my a Christmas gift (I bought three little cat carvings and hand painted them to resemble our babies for him), nor a Valentine's Gift (I bought lingerie for both of us ). He didn't even buy me a birthday gift (April 6th) long after the "last bomb" and we were working things out. Come to think of it...no anniversary gift either way (May 1) either, although we did exchange cards and had a lovely dinner out.
Try not to read too much into this. As for your letter...I don't know...too soon? What do the rest of you think?