His dwelling on the bad parts of the M has been there from Day 1 of the S. Except he started thinking of the good parts about 3 months after the S (i.e. for the past 18-19 months). He says our intimacy is 1000x better. I am hoping he's more receptive now to what I have said in our R talk.
He asked me what I did to change and I responded with a few things because I was conscious of time and didn't know how much he'd want to talk.
Today, I thought of sending him an email telling him more fully what I have done to change myself. I also want to apologize for hurting him and my part in the M failing because he brought up the things that hurt him, things I teased during our honeymoon but he took it badly and never forgot. I want to do this so he can let go of the hurt, independednt of our M restoration.
