As I posted on your other thread I think you are doing what is right in your sitch , which you know better than every one here. Always filter the advice you get here , there are some posters that appear to me to push their own perspective of things very hard (they tend to have been here a very long time ). While there may be some good points in what they say , its your life and you need to be entirely happy with your actions as you have to live with the results. Living close to your kids is very important.