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I'm sure in her world that was a very nice gesture and not adding insult to injury.


My H makes sure there is food prepared in the fridge at all times...chicken salad, lettuce ready for a salad, egg salad, fresh fruit cut up, cheese shredded..you name it. He constantly asks "Did you try the ____?" and wants feedback. I want to say "The egg salad was amazing, but the divorce sucks". ;\) But I thank him and move on with my day.

Yes, in her world, for whatever reason, she wants to help you. If you can't avoid it altogether, then I suppose accept it, thank her and move on.