ping - That is my first backslide into R talks since finding this forum, so almost a month. Basically I had a month of stuff built up I guess. Also, I'm pretty sure (thought I forget a lot as drunk !!) I was civil and just wanted clarification about my fears. I got this, though as I say, no idea of whether truth or not, but think it was. At the time my W had no reason to lie I don't think, assuming she really does want out.

Cleared my head now for a few weeks at least I think.

CBK - No, not reading much into night out and it's a comedy night, so will be laughing together and is something we both love. I'm hoping my kids will be out for the night, then we have some flexibilty afterwards as to if we go home or go on somewhere.