I'm impressed. You have been a woman of steel throughout this ordeal. Now you have the OW on the ropes. Very impressive. I doubt she will make another move because she has screwed up bigtime and left evidence. She'd have to be criminally insane to continue. If she does, then you do have to have to file the police report. I guess your husband learned a lesson about allowing anyone to photograph him naked! Isn't amazing how we have sex with people and claim to "love" them before we even get to know them. That is why they say the brain is the biggest aphrodisiac. You ought to have one sorry Joe there.
If you are interested in getting back with your husband, at this point, you could look into the Retrouvaille program. http://www.helpourmarriage.org. They have weekends all over the world, but not that often, so it's important to book it in advance to reserve a spot. The weekend will work on communication between you and your husband. It will give you a chance to deal one on one with your lives and put yourselves on a good track for the future.
