Arthur, it is good sometimes to get things out in the open but remember, they only help you, not your W. Your W is not wanting to hear about anything to do with the R right now. Stay away from this type of contact, it only hurts you in the long run. Don't go as long as I have before you realize the damage you are doing. I have been S for 5 months now and the first 4.5 months were nothing but R talks and that has really pushed me back for some time. Learn from others mistakes on here. I know it is difficult but it is something you MUST do.
