CBK, one other thing to say. When my W and I S, I asked her mother what should I do. She gave me the advice that I needed to seperate myself from her and not put any pressure on her at all. In MIL's 2nd marriage, she found out that her H cheated on her and they split up, she did all of the begging and all and she said looking back on that she could tell that really pushed him away.
I tried this for a few days and W made the comment to her mother that I have seperated myself from her and I haven't been calling her anymore. MIL told me about this and she said keep this up. Well, that didn't last long as one of my good friends went through a D about 2 years ago and he told me I needed to be telling W how I felt and telling her how much I loved her. Well as you can see, I am still here so that did no good for me, in fact W wouldn't even respond to my emails or texts that I sent her when I mentioned anything about us.
I only found this site about 5 weeks ago and have really only been implementing these tactics for the last 2-3 weeks. Time will tell if anything good will come from it or not in my sitch.
