Hope, I am just catching up so sorry if I am quoting something from a few days ago.
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It's kind of scary; I've never had surgery like this before. My mom is going to come stay a night or two at my apt. with me so I'm not alone. I feel like a charity case. I have no one to help me when I am sick.
My parent's were also the ones who helped me out when I had surgery so I know how you feel when you say you feel like a charity case. BUT they help us out because they want to and love us and want to be there for us. Just take it and embrace it. I hope your surgery goes well.
Also, I agree with Lissie, he doesn't want to be responsible for your feelings. They don't even like to be responsible for their own!