Lwb, one thing I think that makes me want to stay in the house is that the real estate market is so bad I think everywhere but def. where I live. The house either wouldn't sell or we'd probably have to sell for just enough to cover the mortgage, real estate agent, and all the closing and other costs. So I think you might get less money or even have problems selling your house now, at least our sitch is like that.
So far the only reasons H has given me for all the changes is that it would be good for him! Kind of the story of our marriage the last year or two. I think almost every change would help him out in a divorce settlement (but he can't tell me that of course)! And my focus is on what's best for the kids so I guess we may have to fight it out. I think I would agree to better for H than the divorce court judge so if he wants to push it to that I think he will prob. hurt himself. I don't think (at least I hope) a judge wouldn't order all those changes for the kids. I have 2 therapists, mine and D8s psych that would probably argue against that, too. Karen
