The flame is flickering out...

[CBK]

Sir, I am one of those new names with a similar sitc. I have been struggling every day to make heads or tails of this. My W has been having an A for almost a year, she wasn't going to to tell me because she thinks the separation has nothing to do with the A - I agree, but I said the reason you will not work on the M now is because of the A! Oh well.

Question - did you expose the A to anybody? I have been getting all sorts of messages. I promised W that I would not expose to anybody - but man, I wish I would not have promised. More than anything, I feel I should tell S19 and D20 the truth and let the OM wife know. What are your thougts? How did you handle?

thanks

CBK