Thanks, Hopeful! I will probably talk to the C and my insurance company and hopefully can work it out. I am hoping my H will cool down, but kind of don't expect him to. My daughter's psychiatrist advised us about 2 months ago that we should try to keep everything as routine and normal as possible & not make changes as she says that is important for autistic spectrum kids. So H wants us to move out of our house, move to another town, stop homeschooling them, put them into public school, and have me start working full-time although I have been a sahm homeschooling them the past 7 or 8 years! And he just moved out last month! It's like he wants to change everything in our lives to make him happy, but he doesn't think about the kids really. He has been seeing a therapist to help with him anger and that doesn't seem to have helped him much either! I am just going to try not to let his anger or moods affect me as I did yesterday. Hard, but I am going to work on it!!! Karen