Everything Puppy said! \:\) I think you should definitely talk with your W and tell her how you really feel and tell her your boundaries as Puppy suggested (the last is something I've been trying to work on too). I think our spouses lack respect for us if we act too much like doormats (something I have done in the past and am working on). I'm working on loving and respecting myself, so others will love & respect me also! \:\) Karen


Me 53
D18, S24