I agree with you, Bill. I'm making a lot of forward movement, a lot of it I don't post about all that much. But suffice it to say, I keep very active and busy, I like my job, have made new friends and have a very positive life.
The residual feelings I have for H are about as minute as I feel they will ever be. In other words, I don't entirely expect them to fully disappear. That's what I am trying to live with now.

Sorry that your husband still has not found the balls to admit that he screwed up his life when he left you.
On the contrary. He has repeatedly admitted he screwed things up and wishes now he had never left. That isn't the problem. He just adamantly feels it's irrepairable, so he's moving forward.


Last edited by hopefloats7; 04/27/08 04:31 PM.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.