I agree with LWB! You are too hard on yourself, nocode. You did nothing wrong! Yes, it's probably good to do group things, but when that happened it sounds like you were very appropriate with your behavior. I think we are all too hard on ourselves sometimes! I think we are all doing the best in sometimes not very good situations!!! Prayer is good, but you know forgiveness (esp. when you didn't do anything wrong ) is important too!!! Karen