[quote]She said she has experienced true love and doesn't think she can ever feel this way for me again. Like hopeful, my W is not in a place where she wants to work it out, she wants to be alone and try and figure it out on her own. [quote]
She is reading from the "How To Justify your Affair" book. My wife said the same thing. They all say it.
Having and rearing 4 beautiful healthy kids was not enough love for her. Having a safe and happy home was not enough. Having a devoted husband was not enough. No, she needed danger and novelty. So she started a long term affair with a drunk, also married with children, and blew up 2 marriages with 7 kids total. And she said "I have learned I can be happy again." How blind they can be! How selfish!
It is the addiction.
M 43 S14 S13 D11 D7 Divorce final: Jan 2009 Making it up as I go....
