Mink, the problem with your sitch is that the highs and lows are so sudden and so quick. One day she's through and wants a divorce and the next she wants to try again! I can only imagine how emotionally draining that must be for you. I'll play devils advocate here, maybe rather than jumping at her wanting to move home you take some control and put boundaries of some type in place. She's all over the place right now and you can't depend on her emotional choices to be the same tomorrow as they are today. Many people on this BB have said that one of their regrets is that they took the WAS back way to quickly because they were so relieved. Take it slow, think things through and make good choices for Minkerman. Don't let her run this show. Again, these are just my thoughts off the top of my head. I'm sure others will chime in as well. I'll be thinkin' of ya today!
