There is hope. I have been there. My son did the same thing. You have to follow the same DB principles with your son.
It has been over 6 months since son left. He tries to see me everyday now. He sees that I am the stable one. My ex complains about how much work son is for him. Don't give up. We are here to support you. People reap what they sow. Have faith.....
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11