I have been reading your posts since the beginning. At first, I thought you were my W! I am like hopeful - my WW is still in contact with OM on the phone and she is saying the exact same things you are. She said she has experienced true love and doesn't think she can ever feel this way for me again. Like hopeful, my W is not in a place where she wants to work it out, she wants to be alone and try and figure it out on her own.
Your postings are helpful in many ways to those of us on the otherside of the this sitc. Your struggles are true emotions and you are getting great advice.
CBK
M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19 Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16 Divorce final 10/09