I agree with mc. This woman probably feels the same...confused...a bit naughty ....worried what YOU were thinking. She has the same hurt as you, and probably enjoyed a little 'safe' male attention. Its good for the ego. We were struck down, our confidence is shot, its good to remember we are valued, by both men and women.
You are married, you KNOW you would never do anything inappropriate at this point. You are fine. Remove your self inflicted 2 X 4.
....worried what YOU were thinking. She has the same hurt as you, and probably enjoyed a little 'safe' male attention. Its good for the ego. We were struck down, our confidence is shot, its good to remember we are valued, by both men and women. 