I left H a message on his phone that said I heard you moved out and I was wondering if you would mind if I took Neecy out to dinner? How does that make you feel? Like Sh*t? If it does go get some flowers and get your A*s home before you lose everything
WOW! WOW! WOW!
As long as you aren't intiating these things (people making remarks to H, etc), then you can't control them. I wouldn't mention them to H and if he brings them up, be casual about it and change the subject.
