I truly cannot imagine what you are feeling; I too would be devastated to hear those words from one of my children. Even if you know that teens say things they don't mean, it must still hurt terribly.
Alison, I am sorry to see you go, but if you feel that it is best for you, then of course, I support you 100%. I do hope that you will find peace on whatever path you choose.
With love, Nicola
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