I agree. Don't contact at this point. No use. Just take care of yourself the best you can. Find something. Anything to make yourself a better person. Not for her, but for you and your kids.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."