You "stole" 3 years of marriage from your husband.
Do you know what is written about stealing, and what God told us to do to make up for when we steal?
(I confess I had to look it up.) "Let the thief no longer steal, but rather let him labour, doing honest work with his own hands, so that he may have something to share with anyone in need".
AmyC is doing just that. She has done the hard labour and is sharing all she has learned with the many here in need.
Is that the point you were making? That she should not punish herself for "stealing" from her H?
interesting post
Nutty.
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.