A couple of weeks ago W and I had a chat over dinner and she told me she was very happy the way things were going between us, when she asked me if I was happy, I said I was getting there, and when I got there none of what's gone on will really matter. I've since mention that I made an attempt at R talk and W went all alien on me so I've pretty much got to leave that now (noted and filed away).

During this week I was feeling pretty good about things so I sent W txt saying something like "I'm feeling happier day by day", I was quite surprised when W immediately phoned my back and said why the soppy text ? Anyway I laughed it off by saying I was just messing with my new cell phone, and I'm not going all mushy on her. So another thing for me to note and file away (no soppy test messages, just be myself). Anyway W's response is helping me to better understand the dynamics of the new relationship, which I suppose will be good for both of us in the long run.

Last night W and I went out for a night out with BIL & SIL (1970's & 80 soul and disco). The initial awkwardness was broken by the light hearted banter in the car when BIL and SIL picked up us. SIL and I had a brief chat in the club about how things were going and she acknowledged that if I was able to move forward with W and not talk about past event she would have to do the same. Just to remind you W had told SIL that I had walked out on her and D6 because I was accusing her of having OM in the picture which she categorically denied. When SIL confronted me I told her the full story and from that point on until now W had avoided SIL completely. Anyway that's in the past now and SIL reckons the two of them will be ok.

We all boogied well into the night, and a very good time was had by all.


Lanzo

PS: Kalni, I'm not really posting everyday cos the stuff that W and I do now seem quite normal so I don't feel the need to analyse our daily interactions to see if I'm doing right from wrong. However I will post more frequent updates for those who are following my sitch and want to monitor my progress.