Nutty - sad isn't it. We would work on it, but we know them. My H has said he wont even work on himself -- thinks he is to far gone (whatever)...no he just knows he would have to face some stuff and he doesnt want to do that....sad way to end a marriage huh?
Yea, so sad and such a waste!!
Unfortunatly my H mind is too consumed with his gambling. You know, planning where to get money, plans of how to beat the machine or the table, watching other people play, how he will sepnd his big win.etc. He is consumed with that there is no room for self development.
Sadly it is a progressive disorder, it gets worse over time and has done with my H.
If he could get rid of the gambling there would be a huge void in his life. A space big enough to work on the M... I can but hope.
But in the meantime, I keep putting one foot infront of the other; moving on with my life.
Nutty.
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.
