I do wonder if you are adding to your wife’s problems
I agree with others, to move further away would be better and give her more space. If she is in MLC that is the most important gift you can give her.
I understand your concern about your children but feel that if you have genuine concerns about their safety you should go to the authorities. Even if you are 5 yards away, if they are with a volatile, abuse parent anything could happen.
You don’t seem to believe anything your wife says. You sound so angry with her. Moving out does not mean the emotional ties and anger will subside.
Are you absolutely sure that it is not you in MLC?
Nutty.
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.