I know..as guys we want to fix things, but there are some things that are just beyond our control. I don't have any but I think kids are a big deal and I would put them before her. I mean look at where she is putting you. I too wanted to buy into the fairytale and did lock, stock and barrel. Along the way I lost myself and made someone else my center hoping they would take care of my heart. I hope you continue to stay in a good place and wish I could find that place for myself....someday I will. It takes two to tango brother, you gotta figure out what you can deal with, but don't let her walk all over you or you will set the stage and her expectations too.
