All of these posts sound all too familiar. My sitch is much like CW68's. In that we are "separated" living in the same house, have dinner & kid time together, and looking for alt. housing for us to share. Same whomever is w/kids stays at the house. W still unhappy w/this as she wants to feel like she has her own space. Likes being a Mom, but we have been so disconnected for so long that she sees me as a stranger. I have been withdawn and not so open w/my communications w/her for a long time, but am activly working on that. (depression issues w/me too.working on that too) I am more than willing to take resp. for my parts in this, but she does not do that for her part. I like the notion of the marriage sabbatical, but she is already starting to date a new guy...which I technically don't know about ;-) (I'm not an idiot & snooped a bit) I am pretty sure she rather get a D but since we have kids, I think she is going thru the motions of a separation for now.
ME 33 W 37 Together 8 M: 5+ disconnected: 5 D: 2 D: 3
