MA, your feelings are all natural. Let them wash over you, feel them and then use them for strength.

Regarding your girl and the OW, I don't care what DBing has to say about this, but I think you need to put your daughter before anything else. Get something in writing about her staying away from OW. Nothing good can come of it at this point. Be open to change that, but now is not the time for her to be introduced to your daughter.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.