Remember, whats done is done. In many ways, you just went dark if I understand the meaning. As many people say, as long as there is OM in picture, it is very difficult to work on anything except things for you. GAL, 180, etc. (I am horrible at all of this right now).
Hold on to your thoughts, think good things, think of the icky bandaid story.
I work in San Jose and live in the tri-valley area. We should figure out how to have a beer some day - not that misery loves company, but if you are like me, don't have a lot of folks I really want to share my story with - good support, but they have no idea what I am going through and the ones that know the entire story say "walk away" - they don't know why I am DB'ing and should be talking to L.
So... as for the letter, it is sent. If you go back, you are pursuing. I would give it time. Do what is best for you and the kids - that is your TOP priority.
Be well.
CBK
M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19 Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16 Divorce final 10/09
