Originally Posted By: AmyC
I had a 3 year MLC and have gone above and beyond to repair the damage.

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This battle keeps me mired in my past and the guilt that is associated with it. I will never forget the things I did nor will they ever sit well in my soul. But to make myself pay for the rest of my life is not God's will for me and standing, at this stage, is nothing more than self-punishment. After 2 1/2 years of the valley, I'm walking out by the grace of God.


Amy, you may be choosing to walk out... but if you think it is "by the grace/will of God"... where is the biblical justification for what you are doing?



If you are interested in what is truly God's will for you, as opposed to what you want to do for yourself.. consider this:

You "stole" 3 years of marriage from your husband.

Do you know what is written about stealing, and what God told us to do to make up for when we steal?



Last edited by Dom R; 04/27/08 01:41 AM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle