For the guys with kids and a WAW

[CBK]

I have been getting a lot of advice on if I should expose the A to anybody. My kids are 19 and 20. Lots of thoughts on this - some say expose, others say no. I have decided not to expose the A to anybody and have promised WAW that I would not. Sometimes it is tough as I think if I did expose it, she would stop talking to OM, but at the same time, I may drive her to the OM. Even though my kids are young adults, they should not have to be dragged into this. Also, I have my share of blame - the A is a symptom of a something wrong - ours was going bad for the past 4 years and I feel just as responsible for the A in some ways.

So my advice, no, I would not expose the A to anybody - only a couple of select, very close friends and our therapists know. I plan on keeping it this way.

Peace,

CBK