BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK

[cagzmom]

Or to add to what you are saying T people think we are making "excuses for them." They say "how could you take him back? how could he etc etc..." and we say dunno - just know i read on this board and talk to others who have experienced the same and it is ALL IDENTICAL!!

I find it refreshing coming to the board- reading your threads (and others) and seeing the insanity...but I must say your movie writing was perfect. We would laugh at him - and we would wonder what hte H was going on.

There are no gaurantees- you are right T. That is why we must do our own thing. Also- we can't pursue- again this was another fantastic reminder --- not only do they see it as control- but they like to be the pursuer..great reminder.