She did tell me that today was an example of why she won't work on the M and that I had not changed. I told her that the changes were for me, not for her and that I did not care if she worked on the M or not.
Mike, this is exactly what you needed to say. This tells her you are detaching and changing for yourself, not her. You are doing great man, keep it up.
My W has told me she only wanted me to change for myself, not her, I have a feeling if I have heard this, you probably have also.
Enjoy your golf round tomorrow.
I have spoken to W a few times today, I swear it feels like we are still married and nothing has changed, she seems so pleasant on the phone, I almost slipped up and told her ILY not thinking because the conversation went as it would when we were happily married. Man, I just can't figure this mess out!!!!!!!
