Steelers, life must be very tough for you right now. I would just have no contact with your h even if that means going without. Me personally would find another way or go without.
Just your h's comments about not having any milk etc what is new just sickens me. How selfish can you get? Putting his needs ahead of his children. This alone would make me not contact him.
I also would not have any conversations with your children regarding h. I wouldn't want to know what text he is sending or what conversations they are having. Why would you want to subject yourself to that right now? Does it really matter what he is saying if he isn't saying it to you?
You and your kids are all the matter right now. Your h left again and shouldn't be worth your time or effort right now until he gets some serious help.
Hugs!
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
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