Onto the rest of the update. So after drinks we went back to H's place to watch a movie. He had to go to work today so after the movie he said he was going to bed. I said, well, I guess I will leave and let you get some rest. He said..."I didn't say you had to go." ...So I ended up staying the night. Seems I have one of those levitating shirts too So I ended up staying the night and even this morning he was saying that he wished he didn't have to go to work and could just sleep in with me.
One bad thing....last night when we were sleeping his phone started buzzing...text message. It was about midnight. It did it about 4 times and the he just reached over and turned the phone off. I said "Is that her?" He said "Her who?"...I said "you know 'her who'" He said no, but I didn't press the issue anymore, partly because I was tired and partly because he basically ignored it and turned the phone off. I don't know if I believe him or not....but I am leaning towards not.
All in all though I would say it was a good night. I thought his "confession" to me was huge and also the way I reacted was good and maybe made him feel more comfortable about opening up to me.
I got the book "Not Just Friends" in the mail today...so I am off to read!