It's never too late and as active duty military and divorced I can tell you this.....COMMUNICATIO IS EVERYTHING....it was true in the military and is even more so as a civilian. If you have that line open, anything is possible. Yes, it seems fruitless when the other person is seeing someone else and pays on the mind constantly...you could be watching a crapp commercial, and then it hits you again...what is she doing, where is she going, is she thinking about me.....all things that prevent you from GAL. Sometimes you just have to go on your marry way and let things play out. She MAY come back to you...I'm sure you have read about a 1000 of these threads...I know I did and still am. But, the point is, you never know what is going to happen....you can't see into the future and start planning for a reconcilliation party....you will be hanging on forever. Try to live your life one day at a time and live like you were suppose to in the beginning or middle of your "old" relationship.