SF
I have been reading your thread
good thing to stay busy and let your faith guide you
seems by all logic Your H will have to reappear
but maybe for now this is best
the less comfort for him the better for them to see the truth

Alanon is very similar to DB..like could be sister programs
they have meetings everywhere
dealing with an active alcoholic is similar to dealing with a MLC

peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow