I use to see it as BS, but there is no way our situations could be so similar if it was not a illness/crisis. There is such a pattern of behavior that is so predictable.

The possibility of research in this area is phenomenal.

No one really understands/knows what we are experiencing.

It is almost unexplainable at times.

Even if you do try to explain it, some just think you are exaggerating.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11