I use to see it as BS, but there is no way our situations could be so similar if it was not a illness/crisis. There is such a pattern of behavior that is so predictable.
The possibility of research in this area is phenomenal.
No one really understands/knows what we are experiencing.
It is almost unexplainable at times.
Even if you do try to explain it, some just think you are exaggerating.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11