Thanks FA, she normally does attend every game and every practice. Her mother asked her a few weeks back to go to the beach for the weekend. She was hesistant because of the baseball games, I assured her I could handle the games and practices myself. My W stated one of her biggest concerns with me as her H was that she and I do not see eye to eye with the kids, she had to be the responsible one and I just let things go as they were, she was the enforcer and I was not. This was a good time for me to show her I can handle the kids myself and have them in two different places at once as I had to coordinate another mother to carry S7 to his practice so he wouldn't miss. These are kind of 180's for me as she always took care of this type of things. Any other advice you have for me, I am open to any. Thanks for your replys.