My W and I are in the same boat, in fact some of our friends are still just finding out about us and they had no idea even though they see us together at ball games. I talked to her a few times today while at S's games as she is at the beach with her mother, it all felt so normal, she was in a good mood as was I, I almost slipped up and told her ILY when we got ready to hang up as that is how well it went. Thank goodness I didn't do that. I had a mother of another player come up to me today and ask if W and I are S, I told her yes, she asked why, I told her because I'm an A$$, her statement was, "aren't all men". So she just found out and had no idea either, it amazes me, we can talk and get along great but we don't live together. Too much for me to figure out.
Christa, thanks for answering all of my questions, I'm sure I will have more for you. PING.