You are thinking about your kids and that is wonderful.

And how are you going to handle it being so close to the other house when she brings other men over?

And how are you going to handle it when you drive by and see other men interacting with your kids?

And how are you going to handle it seeing her family there with your kids and you are not invited?

Haved you thought about all of this stuff?

IF you were my Husband and you had just bought a house so close to where I lived I would rip you a new one....

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.