I've dropped the rope for good and I'm moving forward with my life, Braveheart. My husband is not interested in getting back together. He seems content to live in his current state as opposed to doing any real "work" on himself much less with me. We have regular contact and it is very good. But I am through having my life on hold while he sits and spins. I know he loves me and I love him and I will always be there for him but it has been 2 1/2 years....and I am turning 39 years old next week. I refuse to do anymore time in this prison.